I am legitimately perplexed right now. Like okay granted in high school you probably didn’t want children, but now i’m seeing so much people getting pregnant who are like in the peak of their years, more than halfway through college or just in general having unplanned pregnancies.
I’m not understanding why it’s so hard to use a condom. Like they’re not expensive, you can even get them for free at places! It doesn’t take away too much of the feeling, and PLUS it protects you from HIV, STDS etc.
What exactly isn’t marketable about something that prevents you from contracted a LIFE LONG DISEASE not to mention a life-long responsibility (children I suppose).
Im going to assume that if you’re having sex without protection you want children. You have to. Because we’re too old to still think pulling out works, and we’re too old to be so naive as to believe everything your man says. Do you know what generation we live in? Your man can be cheating…you don’t know! “well i trust him!” thats great…and? Do you also trust he can support a child when he doesn’t pull out in time?
Jeesh thats so…intimate..allowing a man to like..ejaculate inside of you.
Birth Control is effective sure…but I mean it’ll be JUST YOUR LUCK. Then you can take medicines that cancel out your BC and you don’t even know then BOOM you’re having twins or something.
I just want everyone to get comfortable and settled in their lives with a man they can depend on and trust then have unprotected intercourse.
Rules of the Road: If your significant other is not college educated or even WORSE doesn’t have a JOB (maybe thats why you all can’t afford condoms?) please don’t have unprotected sex with him. please. please? That male is not ready for nobody’s baby.
K. I’m done. Please wrap it up.
I have been doing a lot of critical analysis over the past few months. As a women and gender studies major I have been exposed to the injustices that exist in the world not only gender wise but racially as well. But thats a slight digression for the topic of this post. SO ANYWAY i’ve been doing critical analysis over women’s lives. How we live to fulfill this role of “ladylikeness” (not a word but you understand) and how much BULLSHIT it is. (use of that curse word just then wasn’t ladylike see?) You want to control my speech and silence my words because what I say seems out of the norm for women? Not gonna happen. Not how this works. BUT slight digression.
I’ve always held an idealized view of women and their sexuality. Not sexual orientation here. I’m talking about women as sexual beings. Which is to say as human beings…I never believed you should have sexual relations with someone outside of a relationship. This was my FIRM stance. I don’t think you should be having sex with more than one person at a time and you should wait until you find someone special to lose your virginity to (still believe that actually).
But i’ve never realized how much shaming I do to women who express their sexuality. a natural human instinct. Of course slut is a social construct in itself because there is no one who can provide a concrete definition of what a slut is. Is it sex with more than 5 people? More than 3? Does oral sex count? What if you’re bisexual? Are you promiscuous? There’s no way to define “slut”. And if these circumstances can determine slutiness what are we calling men whose numbers have exceeded both hands? Who let random girls give them oral sex frequently?
This is why I’m making a conscious effort not call ladies sluts, whores, or hoes anymore. Its just not fair. Why do we hold women to such a high standard? Why does fulfilling one’s sexual desires make you less of a human? These ideas about what makes a “woman” are rooted in old times when women were expected to do nothing but cook and clean, reject education and the right to an idea and satisfy their husbands.
Women need to be looking out for themselves. Financially, emotionally, and if so sexually. If you have an appetite EAT. When i’m hungry I eat. When men are horny they find a warm place to nestle their man parts in. Why is it women are getting “fucked”? Who said I’M not “fuckin” YOU? And you men won’t even know it. If you wake up the next morning and you’re sent along your way with a wave goodbye you were “fucked” last night homie. No you can’t stay. No you can’t get breakfast, no I don’t wanna talk just leave. Have a good one.
That’s how the world should be.
thought catalog is everything.
I cannot explain the magnitude of the disgust I feel for all of the men she’s suing, her boss and the entire culture of the firm. My heart goes out to this woman. Let me be clear, this is not just her problem; this is a systematic injustice about how women and their bodies are thought of and treated. This is not ok. This is the enemy.
The fact that the woman is lesbian says something too about men and their beliefs that they can “turn you back” or “watch you and your girlfriend have sex”. What kind of shit is that? I don’t want to blame porn or barsexuality but men (not all of course) don’t respect female-female relationships. They don’t understand they they have emotional aspects as well as physical. And its not for your viewing pleasure! Homosexuality isn’t your play thing, your local pornhub! smh. Also this woman is pretty so idk why they said “shes too ugly to touch”. Well you were busy making sexual passes at her all day everyday it wasn’t a problem then. -______-